There’s a tendency for couples to behave like siamese twins, stuck together and doing things in twos.

I am guilty of choosing my bf over my friends and prefering being in twos rather in a group, sometimes.

Well, for one, I am totally comforty and relaxed in his company and I know I can have my way (most of the time) about where to go, what to eat etc.  It is also much easier to decide the itinerary for 2 rather than to take in the consideration of a group of people.  Not to mention that as a couple, our likes and dislikes are more or less made known to the other party already so that makes making decisions slightly faster.  It is much more convenient to meet up and you don’t spend a lot of time waiting for people to turn up or simple move from one place to the other.  I can have full attention from my bf!  =)

However, there is also funbeing in a group.  Like there will be more crappy people around to lighten the mood, more entertainment from different people.  It helps to have more diversed opinions when the group has no idea what to do next.  Your friends may also bring you to places which you will never go on your own.  In addition, I find that I can learn a lot from listening to other people’s experience.  That’s why in a group I choose to listen more than to talk, I am a very shy person… *blush*  =P

But, what happens when bf is not in town?  What happens if everyone is attached and married? 

It’s already getting difficult to meet up with our different schedules.  Now to put in their partner’s schedule as well makes things even more complicated at times.

I think I will resolve to be more participative in my girls’ gatherings regardless whether my bf is in town or not…. But but but….. I will also spend LOADs of time with my bf lah!!! haha…..